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Relationships take nurturing, maturity and skills. Start today by noticing your
behavior and deciding to do one thing differently.
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In a good relationship, each person feels a greater sense of
energy and vitality.
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Each person has an accurate picture of himself and the other
person.
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Each person feels a greater sense of self worth.
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Each person feels more connected to his or her partner and to
other people.
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In a good relationship, avoid name-calling, blaming or
accusing.
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Be open to self-discovery with yourself and your partner.
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Ask yourself, am I in a place to listen with openness?
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Know that your partner is a separate and different person
with his or her own thoughts, ideas and feelings.
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Focus on one issue at a time when discussing what’s bothering
you.
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Do one thing for your partner every day.
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Give each other legitimate compliments.
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Think of we and not I.
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Always give a little more than your friend or spouse.
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Celebrate little occasions with surprises such as cards, a
song, bake cookies, and a surprise phone call. Hang notes with little sayings
on the mirror.
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Smile and be happy and then you can do what a happy person
does and that is to have what you want.
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Develop yourself by reading the paper, taking a course, or
developing a hobby.
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Plan a fun night out like bowling, dancing or hosting a
party.
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Don’t criticize; describe the behavior.
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Talking is overrated. Keep some things to yourself.
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Never go to bed angry.
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